Legal Relationships
When a couple can finally do everything with the consent of their parents, it’s one of the happiest things that they will ever experience. It’s really hard to make a relationship legal on both sides. It’s hard to impress the parents of your partners so when you got the chance, grab it. It’s not always that a parent will approve their child’s relationship. When you have a legal on both sides relationship, you’re lucky. Don’t waste it.
I will love you always. When this hair is white, I will still love you. When the smooth softness of youth is replaced by the delicate softness of age, I will still want to touch your skin. When your face is full of the lines of every smile you have ever smiled, of every surprise I have seen flash through your eyes, when every tear you have ever cried has left its mark upon your face,I will treasure you all the more, because I was there to see it all. I will share your life with you, and I will love you until the last breath leaves your body or mine.
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| — | Laurell K. Hamilton (via cordura) |
Falling
If you fall who said you couldn’t get back up and try again? Show them that you’re strong enough that if you fall, you can get up back on your feet. Pull yourself up and try again and never give up. You shouldn’t give up on yourself because you should have faith in yourself. You don’t need someone else to help you pick yourself up, you’re stronger than that.
I’m tired of feeling selfish
because I didn’t want to lead the life you did. I didn’t want to sit at home and wait for you and worry and wonder, I didn’t want to be a stay at home mom and have kids right away and possible be left to raise them all alone if and when, God forbid, you died. I didn’t want to be in love with someone who I could loose at any many moment and you knew that.
I’m not selfish. I had to in order to keep going.
I have thought about it many times.
Perhaps mostly because everyone besides myself seems to wonder when I’m going to find someone new. But I don’t let it get to me. I’m not looking for someone new. I’m far from ready and I don’t want to be in a relationship. I just started to let go of my previous one.
There is a time for everything, and now is my time to heal. To grow strong and be whole in myself. Learn to live with myself, my scars and my memories. Learn how to always feel safe within and not let that one single frightened voice in my head (the ego) stop me from having an open heart and dare to love unlimited.
What has been, has been. What is now is now. The rest is still unwritten.
